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"Marriage A Sanskar" |
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It is
said that marriages are made in heaven and life partners are
decided on the birth |
| of a boy or girl even though the search
for the right life partner or match starts |
| when the boy or girl reaches marriageable
age. |
| In Indian Culture, marriage is a
"Sanskar" where the concept of starting a new FAMILY
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| is cherished by every one. |
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| The process of selection of life partners
has changed considerably over the years. |
| Earlier, girls were considered
marriageable at the age of 10-12 years, then 16, then
18. |
| This change is also a
reflection of the importance given to educating
girls. |
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| Simultaneously, there was a change in the
system of marriage arranged by parents, proposed marriages,
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| love marriages & inter-cast
marriages. |
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| In olden days the Purohit used to suggest
the names of eligible boys & girls. |
| Then relatives, neighbours, family
friends started informing names of prospective boys &
girls. |
| Today, we are moving away from an era of
joint families. |
| We are adopting flat culture from old
houses/wadas when we move to cities for jobs or for higher
education. |
| Today our boys & girls are proceeding
abroad to pursue higher studies or |
| for better prospects in their
careers. |
| All this has
resulted in communication gap amongst
us and |
| people are finding difficulties in their
'search' for the right match. |
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| The introduction of Marriage Bureaus, in
reality, helps parents to fill this communication gap by
providing |
| name, address and more details of
marriageable boys & girls at one place in their
search. |
| Reshim Gathi is a professionally managed,
provider of such services. |
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| RESHIM
GATHI |
| 3,
Parvati Chambers, |
| Sangam
Press Road, Kothrud, |
| Pune 411
038, |
| Maharashtra, |
| India |
| Tel. :
91-20-25469158 |
| Tele Fax :
91-20-25469158 |
| e-mail: info@reshimgathi.com |
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